How to Love What You Do

Although my friends sometimes accuse me of being unromantic, I don’t believe in the concept of soulmates.  I just don’t think that there is one person out there with whom we are destined to spend our lives.  Rather, I feel that there are a number of people out there who could make us happy.

It’s the same thing with careers.  Far too often, I see people putting unimaginable pressure on themselves as they struggle to find their one true passion.  But in fact, it’s likely that they could be satisfied doing a variety of jobs.  A better solution is often to love what you do instead of endlessly striving to do what you love.

Marty Nemko is a friend of mine and a pioneer in the advice space.   I have been reading his work for years, and I’ll never forget one article he wrote for  In the piece, Nemko agrees with me that finding career contentment is often a matter of diving in wholeheartedly into the job you have, or the best job that’s available to you.  He suggests that the best path for most people is to pick a practical career with the following characteristics:

  • Moderately challenging
  • Meaningful work
  • A kind, competent boss
  • Pleasant co-workers
  • Learning opportunities
  • Reasonable pay
  • Reasonable work hours
  • A short commute

Nemko says that a job with even half of these will make you more likely to love your job than if you had pursued a long shot career.  He illustrates the idea with the story of Gary, a mentee who recently graduated from Michigan State with no clue what he wanted to do.  His cousin told him that a job was open in a dashboard manufacturing plant.  Gary wasn’t passionate about dashboards; who is?  But he was tired of living on his parents’ sofa, so he took the job.

Because Gary was bright and curious, he asked lots of questions and soon became the go-to guy on the factory floor. Soon after that, Gary got a promotion and a raise and felt genuinely excited about his future in the industry.

Apparently, feeling expert at something – even something as mundane as dashboards – and being recognized for that expertise, is more likely to create career passion than going after a pipe-dream career.  Here are some tips for loving what you do and creating a more meaningful work experience where you are.

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